When Jane Fowler hit the dating scene after her 23-year marriage ended in divorce, she didn’t think she needed to use protection when she had sex. “I wasn’t worried about getting pregnant,” says the 72-year-old retired journalist from Kansas City, Mo., “and the man I was seeing was an old friend, also recently divorced.” So she was shocked to learn, after having a routine blood test in 1991, that she’d been infected with HIV, a nightmare she hopes to help others avoid by lecturing at senior health fairs. “My mantra is that you never know the sexual history of anyone but yourself.”

With Viagra and Internet dating sites at their fingertips, a growing number of seniors are enjoying a renaissance between the sheets, but some are paying the piper, contracting sexually transmitted diseases. As HIV carriers live longer, the majority will be over age 50 by 2015, and even now about 15 percent of new infections occur in this age group, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Other STDs, including herpes, chlamydia, and human papillomavirus, which is linked to cervical cancer, are also making the rounds. “While it’s a good thing that older people are more sexually active, they need to connect the dots, see that they’re at increased risk, and make sure they use condoms,” says Anthony Fauci, director of the National Institute of Allergy and Infectious Diseases.

Unsafe at any age. But many folks haven’t gotten the message. In a small survey conducted by University of Chicago researchers, nearly 60 percent of unmarried women ages 58 to 93 said they didn’t use a condom the last time they had sex. Even more disturbing, an Ohio University study found that about 27 percent of HIV-infected men and 35 percent of HIV-infected women over 50 sometimes have sex without using condoms.

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I’d like to state for the record that I’m not posting the information as a slam to Ms. Alba. I’m merely stating what the rumor is and just how easy it is to encounter someone who has herpes. It’s not the end of the world by any means. I only wish we could find one very brave celebrity that would become the name and face behind our awareness efforts. Alba would be perfect. She’s the most beautiful woman alive and so sweet too! What more could we want?

Jessica Alba caught herpes from an ex-boyfriend, it has been claimed.

The ‘Fantastic Four’ star - recently voted FHM’s Sexiest Woman Alive 2007 - previously dated New York Yankees baseball star Derek Jeter and during their relationship she allegedly contracted the sexually transmitted disease.

A source who worked as Jessica’s assistant at the time claims they had to replenish her Valtrex prescription - a treatment for genital herpes - on a regular basis, according to website L.A. Rag Mag.

Jeter has also dated Mariah Carey, Vanessa Minnillo and most recently Justin Timberlake’s new girlfriend Jessica Biel.

Seventy percent of herpes spreading is said to happen when there is no sign of infection, according to a US STD awareness campaign.

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Cheryl-Ann Pollock said she believed her boyfriend when he told her that the sexually transmitted disease he had was in remission and could not be spread.

It was not until a few weeks after he ditched her for his ex-girlfriend that she decided to ask her doctor about it, just to be sure. Her doctor confirmed Pollock’s worst fears: Despite what her boyfriend had told her, she said he had given her herpes.

Last week, Pollock, 49, of Long Beach, filed a lawsuit against her ex in Nassau Supreme Court, charging that the disease he gave her will make it difficult ever to be intimate with a man again.

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